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A place for women to speak up & get answers about low sexual desire that frustrates us.

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Millions of women have hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD). Let’s discuss.

A clinician’s perspective: What I wish my patients knew about low sexual desire

WRITTEN BY: Dr. Lisa Larkin Women’s sexual health is an area of patient care that has been neglected for far . . .

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Follow These Simple Steps

Talking about sex, even with friends, can be tough. But LaTonya Yvette wants to change that. It can often take a little nudge, but there are three things that can make it easier.

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Let’s talk about sex(ual) health and well-being

Is losing your desire for sex really such a big deal? The answer is simple: If it’s a big deal . . .

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Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder

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Frustrated by low sexual desire? You're not alone. Take this short quiz to find out if you have symptoms that may be associated with HSDD.
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See How unblush Can Help

You don’t have to deal with hypoactive (low) sexual desire disorder (HSDD) alone. It can help to talk it out before bringing it up to a partner or healthcare professional. With resources like our conversation starter, and tips to help talk to a partner, unblush is a community where you can do just that.

It’s worth repeating: we’re here for you.

Talk it out

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Start the Conversation

We want to help end the shame women feel talking about sex, especially when it comes to sexual desire. With Female Collective, we want to empower women to not shy away from discussing it—whether it’s with a partner, friend or doctor.

Speak up about sexual desire

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Join Our Community

This past May, hundreds of women came together at our unblush event to have candid conversations about sex. We collaborated with SELF to bring this to life, because frustrating low sexual desire is a condition millions of women suffer from. The days of suffering in silence are long gone, because we’re in this together.

You’re not alone. Get the support you deserve at unblush

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Let’s Talk About Sex

We partnered with LaTonya Yvette, author and lifestyle blogger, to talk about sex. It’s not always an easy subject to bring up, especially when it concerns low sexual desire. But the more you do it, the more confident you’ll feel discussing it.

Start the conversation with LaTonya Yvette

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If your desire for sex is frustratingly lower than it used to be.
If you want help for finding out how to get it back.
This is the place to start.
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Get the Help You Deserve

Having a low sex drive can make you feel ashamed, embarrassed or even confused, but you’re not alone. Madge the Vag is here to dish the dirt on lack of sexual desire and what to do when it has you down.

Originally published on Scary Mommy.

Questions about low sexual desire? Get answers from an expert.

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Now’s the Time to unblush

If you think you may have hypoactive (low) sexual desire disorder, or HSDD, talking to a healthcare professional is the first step. If you’re not sure what to expect, that’s okay—we’ve got the scoop.

Your healthcare professional may ask you questions relating to your sexual desire and level of interest, but don’t feel embarrassed. You’ve got this.

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    Medical conversations for HSDD and low female sex drive
    Conversation Starter

    Get step-by-step help talking to your healthcare provider.

    HSDD screening questionnaire
    Symptom Checker

    Answer a few questions to find out if you have symptoms associated with HSDD.

    How to talk about female libido issues
    Talking to Your Partner

    It’s not easy, but it’s so important. These tips can help you have an open, honest conversation.