A place for women to speak up & get answers about low sexual desire that frustrates us.

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Millions of women have hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD). Let’s discuss.

How long has it been since you had sex and were really into it?
How long has it been since you had sex and were really into it?
Woman wonders if she suffers from hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD). How to diagnose HSDD.

Diagnosing HSDD

The key to a diagnosis is having an open and honest conversation with a healthcare provider.

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Of the following, which do you think is the least helpful advice about low sexual desire?
Of the following, which do you think is the least helpful advice about low sexual desire?

Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder

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Frustrated by low sexual desire? You're not alone. Take this short quiz to find out if you have symptoms that may be associated with HSDD.
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Interview with Sarah P.

Sara P. knows firsthand how frustrating low sexual desire can be. She shares her story with unblush.

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Why don’t I want to have sex? unblush interviews Sarah P., a woman with low sexual desire. HSDD interviews.

unblush interview: talking about low sexual desire

unblush talks with Sarah P., a woman with low sexual desire, who has not been diagnosed with HSDD.

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What do you do when a group of friends is talking about their active sex lives?
What do you do when a group of friends is talking about their active sex lives?
Why don’t I want sex like I used to? You’re not alone. Millions of women, some as young as 20, suffer from low sexual desire. It may be HSDD – a treatable medical condition.

Get the Facts on HSDD

Chances are you know someone with HSDD: millions of women in the US have the condition (about 1 in 10).

So, before you do some serious Googling, if you think what you’re experiencing is weird or uncommon—it’s not.

Learn more about HSDD.

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If your desire for sex is frustratingly lower than it used to be.
If you want help for finding out how to get it back.
This is the place to start.
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Have you talked to your partner about low sexual desire?
Have you talked to your partner about low sexual desire?
Woman wonders what HSDD is…and what it isn’t.

HSDD 101: what it is, what it isn’t

If you’re hearing the term “hypoactive sexual desire disorder” (HSDD) for the first time, you’re in good company. Not to worry—you can get some HSDD basics right here.

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Cartoon woman embarrassed about her low sexual desire. We can help you get information on HSDD.

Today Is the Day to unblush

It’s true: even if it can’t be seen, low sexual desire feels like *this* for many women.

Low sexual desire is nothing to be ashamed of or hide from. Especially not here. We get what you’re going through and want to help you open up.

Get help opening up about low sexual desire

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  • I would like to know how HSDD is treated ...
  • I really feel this is something I have. I have no desire and haven’t have for sometime. I love my husband. We have been married for 20yrs. I don’t feel like he believes me, as far as this condition goes. He thinks it’s just another excuse. I wish there was something he would believe. Please help.

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