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Women speak up about their experiences with HSDD and low sexual desire.

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There’s power in numbers: speaking up about low sexual desire is the first step. And while your experience may be different from someone else’s, that doesn’t mean you have to confront it by yourself.

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  • I have had a problem with low sex drive for years. It has taken a huge toll on my marriage. We have been married for 15 yrs with 4 amazing daughters. I love my husband and do not want or desire anyone else. However, I do not desire sex at all not even self pleasuring. I have tried for years to speak to my primary care doctor they tell me it is all in my head but go talk to my obgyn. That doctor again tells me there is nothing wrong it is all in my head and that you need to go speak to a therapist. I go there and they blame it on kids, life and everything else and tell me to keep trying and eventually I will I will magically have a desire for it! Ugh so tired of everyone telling me there is nothing wrong with me. Anyone else have something similar happen? And what did you do? My husband is not so patient anymore and I am scared our marriage is not going to last much longer.
Cartoon woman keeping her low sexual desire a secret. She opens the door to transform embarrassment into empowerment.

Stop Hiding From HSDD

If you have low sexual desire, you don’t have to keep it a secret. It’s not your fault and it’s nothing to hide from. Now’s the time to transform the embarrassment into empowerment.

Let’s confront low sexual desire, together

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What causes HSDD (frustrating low sexual desire) in women? HSDD is believed to be the result of an imbalance of certain chemicals in the brain that are responsible for regulating sexual desire. Ongoing, frustrating low sexual desire may be HSDD, which has been recognized as a medical condition since 1987. HSDD or low sexual desire affects women of different ages, some as young as 20. HSDD is the most common female sexual dysfunction, affecting millions of women, some as young as 20. Symptoms include low sexual desire, which can cause women to avoid situations that may lead to intimacy.

Two Truths & A Myth

Scroll through to see what cards hold the truths (and a myth) about #HSDD.

Hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) is the most common sexual female dysfunction but often goes undiagnosed. Why is that? A lot of women don’t even know HSDD exists, let alone that it’s treatable.

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Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder

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Has your healthcare provider ever asked you about low sexual desire?
Has your healthcare provider ever asked you about low sexual desire?

Talk to Your Partner About HSDD

Uh oh. He’s giving you “the look” again. You know what that means. Time to think up another excuse to avoid sex.

Your sex life won’t come back if you ignore it. It’s time to stop making excuses for your low sexual desire.

Talk to your partner about HSDD

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One in ten women suffer from hypoactive sexual desire disorder. Learn more about the symptoms.

Learn About HSDD

It’s more common than you think. About 1 in 10 women in the US has hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD).

Let’s break it down: that’s millions of women. And if you have the condition, you don’t have to go through it alone.

Check out these symptoms

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Have you brought up low sexual desire with your healthcare provider?
Have you brought up low sexual desire with your healthcare provider?
If your desire for sex is frustratingly lower than it used to be.
If you want help for finding out how to get it back.
This is the place to start.
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Cartoon woman feels undone due to low sexual desire and a decrease in sexual enjoyment.

Be Done With Feeling Undone

Millions of women with HSDD feel the frustration that comes with low sexual desire.

But HSDD isn’t something women just have to live with. We can help you get back your sexual desire.

Low sexual desire doesn’t have to be your new normal

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Join the Conversation

Talking about low sexual desire isn’t the easiest thing to do, but it’s worth it. Don’t know how to start the conversation? That’s okay, too.

We can help you get to a place where you feel comfortable and confident enough to speak up.

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How long has it been since you had sex and were really into it?
How long has it been since you had sex and were really into it?


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