Published 1.1.19 Start the conversation about low sexual desire: fill in the blanks. Like This Share Share on Facebook Share on Twitter Share on LinkedIn Mad Libs Results If you are human, leave this field blank. Your Doctor Conversation Starter Lately, I’ve been experiencing low sexual desire that’s frustrating. When it comes to my sex drive, I feel sad and thinking about having sex makes me feel embarrassed. It’s also impacting my my relationship. Recently, I’ve heard about hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD) and the Decreased Sexual Desire Screener (DSDS). Can you tell me more? Send Yourself the Results * Your email address will not be saved or used for any other purposes. Email Print Subscribe to Unblush - Block If you are human, leave this field blank. Subscribe Email Subscribe now to stay up to date with the latest posts and activity from our community. Your information will be used in a manner consistent with the privacy policy. About the Author unblush unblush is a community of women speaking up about the impact of loss of sexual desire—and ways to confront it. Get Answers Search for: Search You must enter a search term Related Questions I am 23 and my bf is 24. I have been with my bf for 6yrs now. At around 2 yrs ago my sex drive went so dwn. I’m never in the mood and he always is. When i say no I’m the bad one. Even when we do have sex he still wants to keep going bit I’m one and done I’m satisfied, but he’s not. I’m not driven like i was b4 and we have fought over this for a while now. How can I make it better. 6 Answers I believe I’ve had HSDD my whole life. I am only now looking into this. My whole life I never felt sexually aroused, by either gender, even though I would have sex. I enjoy sex more with women than men, and also am more attracted to women. I much prefer being the giver, than the receiver. When my partner wants to pleasure me, I’m at a loss at what to do, how to feel, if I’m supposed to be feeling something, if this is normal, if I’m broken. I just feel nothing, emptiness when it’s my turn. And I feel ashamed and abnormal. My main question is, how did you discover HSDD and how did you talk to your partner about it, if at all? Thank you ladies! 4 Answers I don’t like taking medication due to past childhood trauma. I am still new to this idea of having this diagnosis, if this does happen to be why I am the way am and feel the way I do during and about sex, are there any other methods to help? I really don’t want to have to medicate myself but I don’t want to keep feeling this way either. 1 Answers View More Stay Connected Subscribe to unblush Subscribe to unblush If you are human, leave this field blank. Email Subscribe now to stay up to date with the latest posts and activity from our community. Your information will be used in a manner consistent with the privacy policy. Resources Conversation Starter Get step-by-step help talking to your healthcare provider. Read More Symptom Checker Answer a few questions to find out if you have symptoms associated with HSDD. Start Quiz Talking to Your Partner It’s not easy, but it’s so important. These tips can help you have an open, honest conversation. Learn More
