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Roxanne407

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Someone Else Asked

I believe I’ve had HSDD my whole life. I am only now looking into this. My whole life I never felt sexually aroused, by either gender, even though I would have sex. I enjoy sex more with women than men, and also am more attracted to women. I much prefer being the giver, than the receiver. When my partner wants to pleasure me, I’m at a loss at what to do, how to feel, if I’m supposed to be feeling something, if this is normal, if I’m broken. I just feel nothing, emptiness when it’s my turn. And I feel ashamed and abnormal. My main question is, how did you discover HSDD and how did you talk to your partner about it, if at all? Thank you ladies!

Roxanne407 Answered
“I am so fortunate to have an amazing and very understanding partner but I just flat out tell him what I'm feeling. I tell him that I'm so frustrated that I have zero desire because I need him to know that it's not him, it's me. We've been together 18 years and it's just recently that I felt comfortable enough to share that with him. I figure that as long as I'm honest about my feelings, then at least he knows where we stand”
4 weeks ago
Someone Else Asked

Has anyone else had their doctor insinuate that their low sexual desire was because the marriage was in trouble?

Roxanne407 Answered
“My doctor assumes it's my antidepressant but I've been on them for years and it wasn't that bad until a couple years ago. I've felt too uncomfortable bringing it up again”
4 weeks ago
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