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So i think my low sex drive with my boyfriend derived from my past sexual abuse. However, my situation is kind of complicated. Although my past sexual abuse has nothing to do with him I feel that the reason I lost the desire was because of the lies and heartbreak of his being an alcoholic. I got to the point where I left him. I was able to move on quickly to being intimate with another man. This confuses me. I actually wanted sex. Anyway, my ex showed me he was going to get sober and I saw he was really trying. We got back together. I do sincerely love this man so much but because I don’t have the desire to have sex it is causing so many arguments. How can I move past this and want to be intimate again?