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lsgolfgirl

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Someone Else Asked

There will be times where I want to engage in sex with my husband but when It comes down to having sex I dont engage at all. I feel scared. Does anyone else go through this?

lsgolfgirl Answered
“I agree with Kelly, I don't have any desire at all to have sex. It is not comfortable for me (have tried tons of positions, lubes, toys, etc), it takes me forever to get in the mood (and then my mind has already started wandering elsewhere to all the million other things I need to or should be doing), and when we do have sex I honestly do not enjoy it. I end up agreeing to have sex because I know my husband wants and needs it. It is also often painful for me because my vaginal muscles can never seem to get relaxed. We have been married for 25 years and have been together for 27. We have one daughter who is 13. Our sex life was good early in our marriage...but once we had our daughter, my desire was like 'poof' and disappeared.”
3 weeks ago
Someone Else Asked

What age were you when you first noticed low sexual desire?

lsgolfgirl Answered
“34, after having my one and only child, a daughter. Have never had any desire since she was born 13 years ago. This is a big issue for my husband, he gets very upset about it and thinks that it is totally abnormal for me (now 46 years old) to have no desire at all.”
3 weeks ago
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