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What age were you when you first noticed low sexual desire?

  • 22Responses
  • Answered 1 month ago
    Late 20s
  • Answered 4 weeks ago
    18, after having my child.
  • Answered 4 weeks ago
    Late 20s for sure
  • Answered 4 weeks ago
    About 17
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    26 years old
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    37 after I had my daughter
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    34 years old
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    26 years old
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    I think I’ve always had it, just didn’t realize it because I wasn’t comparing it to a previous time when I had a normal sex drive; it’s just how I always was.
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    It was in my early 20's and has just got worse every year and now that i am almost 40 i have no desire
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    For me it was just over a year and a half ago, at 31. It was really surprising for me, and I didn’t feel like myself at all. I’ve always had a really really active libido and really fulfilling sex life... I feel like HSDD took an important part of my identity away.
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    37
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    i’m 26 and i definitely don’t feel myself
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    26
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    I don’t know too much about it, but I think I’ve always been this way or had it. Growing up I never understood everyone’s obsession with sex. It never really appealed to me or seemed that important in my life. I still don’t and I’m 21. When my partner wants to have sex I often don’t. I’m not in the mood hardly ever, and I wish I was ..
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    27, about 6 months before I got pregnant with my first child. And since motherhood, it has only worsened — to the point of me not wanting to be in a relationship anymore, and he could likely feel the same.
  • Answered 3 weeks ago
    Early 20's
  • Answered 2 weeks ago
    I think I was born this way but I’ve always felt like there is something wrong with me because this is how I am. Doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy myself or that the act isn’t satisfying, but most of the time I can take it or leave it. I’m 53 and never even knew there was an actual name for it.
  • Answered 2 weeks ago
    I noticed it starting to go around 28 and then it completely disappeared after I had a major surgery. It really effects my relationship with my husband. He wants to start a family feel guilty that I have no desire for sex. I love him and I'm attracted to him but my body just doesn't cooperate. Makes me feel like a bad wife.
  • Answered 5 days ago
    32 - it's been like this for awhile, but I just thought it was because I was unusually tired all of the time.
  • Answered 2 days ago
    im 29 now but after the birth of my third child in 2015 is when I really noticed that I could care less about having sex. It sucks. I have no desire anymore. At all.
  • Answered 17 hours ago
    I'm almost ashamed to say, but probably late 40's. I'm 55 now and am in pre menopause so I'm sure that has something to do with it.
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